Our son was referred to Babies Can’t Wait because he was born early and spent time in the NICU. BCW’s role is to perform developmental assessments to check for any delays in meeting milestones and provide interventions if necessary. I’m excited and relieved that he passed his assessment with flying colors! That means all of our daily activities are working very well on him and he does not need any interventions.
Two years ago this week, my husband proposed to me at the Atlanta Botanical Gardens. I was under the impression that we were taking couple photos for a friend’s photography business as we have done once before. During our last photoshoot two months prior, I thought he was going to propose and was a little disappointed when he didn’t.
The proposal took place in one of the most beautiful areas of the garden with a large fountain in the background. I started crying when he bent down on one knee because we talked about our future before and now it was here; a reality.
There were a few people around that gave us our congratulations. Later, we drove to a low country restaurant, which is my all time favorite food. My mom is from the low country of SC so I know it well. When I walked in, to my surprise, our family and friends were there! They were there to congratulate and celebrate our new engagement. We talked, ate, took pictures, and had a good time. Afterwards, it started raining and we ran to the car. There we kissed like they do in the movies; corny and in the rain lol.
It’s been a while since my last post. With everything going on, I needed to take a break and focus on other things.
I got accepted into an HR certification program at Syracuse University. The program is virtual and is available at no cost to Active Duty Members, Reservists, Veterans, and their Dependents. The program offers several certification options, but HR was the only program that could benefit my career (I work in the healthcare industry). For further information visit http://ivmf.syracuse.edu/.
I’ve been working on my sewing skills and started an Etsy called Med Life Creations, where I provide low cost face masks for people to wear. I got tired of seeing people walking around not protecting themselves or the people around them so I created a solution. I don’t charge anywhere near the amount as others because I’m not looking to cash out during a Pandemic.
Mother’s Day Weekend
My first Mother’s Day weekend was wonderful! I received a lot of calls, texts, and gifts; it was like an early Christmas. My weekend started with a virtual meetup with other moms and it was fun. We laughed, cried, and encouraged each other. It was one of the most positive events I ever attended.
Moreover, I’m filled with much gratitude to be here to celebrate Mother’s Day due to the complications I endured during my third trimester; an opportunity many mothers do not have. In the United States, the maternal mortality rate is the highest of the developed world and the numbers are significantly greater amongst Black Women. Black women, regardless of education and financial status are three to four times more likely to die from pregnancy complications. Women sacrifice so much to bring life to this world; our bodies, emotional wellbeing, time, etc.
Today’s post discusses simple ways we encourage our son’s cognitive and physical development through play activities.
Tummy time helps to strengthen many muscles throughout a baby’s body. It helps with other skills such as crawling, rolling, sitting, etc.
Everyday, Baby Zay performs tummy time on his Little Einstein activity mat for as long as he can tolerate it. He started as soon as he came home from the hospital with two to five minute sessions and now he can last up to an hour. While your child is performing tummy time, you want to remain present to monitor your baby and intervene when neccessary.
High Contrast Books
High contrast books supports young eye development. The simple lines and bold patterns are easier for babies to see.
We read to Baby Zay daily and point at the pictures. The goal is to support his eye development as well as attentional focus.
We use the rattle during play time because it helps with eye development and focus as well.
Baby Zay is able to focus on an object and watch its movement.
Wrist + Sock Rattles
Baby Zay loves these! The sound excites him and encourages him to move his arms and legs.
This is the perfect time to allow your body to rest. We will likely never have a period of nothingness again; just relax.
I read on social media that some people feel pressured to start a new business or hobby and that they just want to stay in and chill out. At the end of the day, everyone should just do what’s best for them and tune out everyone else.
Monday was my first day back at work and it went well. I recently accepted a new role that allows me to work from home, which I have never done before. I still have a pier diem clinical role, but I decided to scale back because of the Coronavirus and and possible exposure to my family. If you have been reading our blog, we have a newborn baby at home. Although the studies show that most infants and children do not get very ill with the virus, I’m still not taking any chances right now.
Future plans. Possibly telemedicine?
I am definitely considering work-from-home options after earning my RN BSN; perhaps teaching and telemedicine. I believe alot of remote job positions are going to remain after this Pandemic.
I mean…why not?
There would be less cars on the road which benefits the environment, makes commute less congested, and less stressful for people. Employers can summons remote staff to a physical location twice per week for training, briefing, etc.
What do you think about working from home?
Would you want to keep working from home after this Pandemic subsides?
Happy Easter to everyone! This year we are having a non-traditional Easter Celebration, but that’s the least of our worries. We are happy, healthy, have food in the cupboard and a roof over our heads. Yes, there’s alot going on in the world, but take the time to look at the positives.
In a previous post, I wrote about suggestions for staying positive and productive during self isolation. One suggestion was to find a hobby and I used sewing as one of two examples. I always wanted to pick up sewing, but had other things on my plate.
I ordered the Brother XR3774 Sewing Machine from Amazon. It was moderately priced and rated as excellent for beginners. It came with one set of replacement parts and an instructional DVD.
We don’t own a DVD player and our laptops don’t have a CD-Rom so I turned to YouTube to figure out how to work my new sewing machine. Brother has an official YouTube channel with short easy to follow tutorials about the setup of the machine, troubleshooting, etc. It took me fifteen minutes to string up my machine. Then, I cut up an old t-shirt and practiced a couple of stitch patterns; straight and zig-zag. It was simple enough so I began my first project: Fabric Face Masks.
Fabric Face Masks are recommended for use because of the existing medical supply shortage. Our frontline healthcare workers don’t have what they need to safely treat Covid-19 patients so the medical supply chain has shifted most of their focus to producing what they need in a short amount of time. For those of us who do not work in those critical areas and for non-healthcare workers, this means face masks are even more scarce.
I turned back to YouTube for a tutorial simple enough for newbies to follow. Youtuber HomemadeOnOurHomestead had one of the easiest tutorials with written instructions and a pattern to download.
As a newbie, it took me about an hour to produce each mask because I wanted to make sure I was following the instructions correctly and that all of my seams were secure. Fabric masks are reusable and I don’t want ours to unravel in the wash.
With the exception of the fabric, which I purchased from my local Walmart, all of my materials was shipped from Amazon.
Relationship experts often say that one of the keys to keeping the spark alive in a long-term relationship is continuing to court your significant other after making it down the aisle. They recommend setting designated time for one another to reconnect and revive feelings of romance and love. Personally, I think the execution is easier said than done, especially with a newborn baby. At home dates are an easy remedy to overcoming the challenge of not having the time and opportunity to go out on the town.
The concept of an at home date is what you make it. You can get creative and come up with fun, one-on-one activities to do with your significant other without having to leave the house. If you have kids, your date starts once they go to bed.
Below are ideas for enjoyable, easy-to-plan, inexpensive at home dates you can try with your significant other.
Netflix + Chill
My husband and I love to watch movies at the theater, especially if they have dinner and drink options. The same can be recreated at home with more privacy and a fraction of the costs.
Wine + Vinyls
We built a vinyl record collection with golden oldies and current artists. If you are into the same, they make a great conversation piece. Add a glass of wine and you have a relaxing music filled evening!
Create a Wanderlust List
Make a list of places you’d like to travel to and plan a vacation together. I’m sure there are going to be a lot of airline and hotel deals to take advantage of after everything settles down.
Have a Tasting Party
You can sample small plates of food, desserts, wines, beers, Etc.
Couple’s Paint Night
Let your creative juices flow with an art project. You can create a new piece of decor for the house or DIY gift for family, friends, etc.
Set up a little tent in the living room. You can make s’mores and roast sausages in the fireplace. The best part is you don’t have to worry about the weather.
Video Game Challenge
Face off with your favorite multiplayer games like Mario Kart or Super Smash Bros.
Bake Sweets with your Sweetie
Feast on your favorite sweets together.
Put a Puzzle Together
Challenge each other by completing a large puzzle in one night.
Medical professionals are urging people to practice social distancing in order to slow the transmission of the SARS-COV-2 virus. Social distancing is when you obtain from large crowds and maintain a If you are able to stay home, take advantage of your time away from the normal hustle and bustle.
1. Find a Hobby
Maybe you want to learn to sew or crochet, start a garden, etc., but didn’t have the time before? Take advantage of the extra time on your hands by learning something new. You can upkeep social distancing by scheduling the supplies you need for delivery or store pick up. Right now, Hubby and I are filling in Baby Boy’s scrapbook. It has his ultrasound photos, tidbits about his NICU journey, and current photos. We will continue to update with every . Also, I’m learning to sew and crochet, which I’ve put off for years until now. I am in the research phase and will be ordering the supplies soon.
Now that you have extra time on your hands, you can start or maintain a consistent exercise routine. If your local gym is closed, you can still exercise independently in your home or go for a walk in nature. Pinterest has free exercise content you can refer to via computer, phone, and ipad/tablet. If you prefer to exercise with a coach, you can workout with one via YouTube at no cost. My favorite YouTube fitness channels are: Fitness Blender, Super Hero Fitness TV, and Pop Sugar Fitness. They have routines for every fitness level and various areas of target.
Take advantage of your time by getting a full night’s sleep. Per the National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute, “Sleep plays a vital role in good health and well-being throughout your life. Getting enough quality sleep at the right times can help protect your mental health, physical health, quality of life, and safety.” So, good sleep is connected to wellness and I try to get as much as possible.
4. Self Care
Take time to unwind and pamper yourself. Make a mud mask, give yourself a mani pedi; whatever it is that relaxes you, do it. Take breaks from checking in with the news to eliminate stress and anxiety triggers because both are unhealthy and suppresses the immune system. Every weekend for the past two years, I designate time to myself. I turn on my aromatherapy machine, read a book, color in an adult coloring book, watch my favorite movies, visit my local nature trail, soak in the tub, etc. I engage what brings me joy and it helps to keep my grounded.
5. Connect with Family and Friends
Social distancing is only physical. We can still call, text, and video chat with our love ones. Because of modern technology, we will never truly be alone and can connect with others via social media, online groups, blogs, and forums. Everyday, I take time to check in with family to see how they are doing and to just talk about whatever. We have one big text thread where we chat it up throughout the day, send motivational quotes and funny videos. Thanks to technology, social distancing is more tolerable.